There are many challenges with relocating, with some challenges rating higher on the stress scale than others. Once the logistics of the move are over and you are no longer stepping over boxes or searching for teaspoons, settling in is the next hurdle.
By settling we don’t just mean sorting out your new home, but how do you make your new environment ‘feel’ like home?
It can be daunting with family and friends no longer near at hand. The ‘euphoria’ of arriving safely with your belongings is quickly overtaken by the realization ‘that’s it, I’m here, what now?’
The settling in period can be quite different for those who have relocated for work and for those who have accompanied their partners. Your new work environment is your new routine and you tend to hit the ground running.
Many companies offer support and programs to assist with settling in. These are really worthwhile participating in, especially if language or cultural differences are a challenge with the new job.
Social or sports clubs attached to your company are a great way to meet people initially. Meeting up with people who have the same interests will broaden your social circle, while you slowly build your own network. If you have relocated overseas, seek out expat groups to join.
Expats have already done what you’re doing and can be a wealth of information and may even prevent you from making mistakes due to your inexperience. Remember this is not about trying to etch out a piece of home in a foreign land it’s about finding a support system to help, in what can be for some, a lonely settling in period.
Don’t neglect opportunities to form friendships within your local community too, it’s the best way to assimilate and feel part of your new environment. If on the other hand, you are relocating because of your spouse or partners job, it presents with its own kind of challenges.
You may not be able to work, due to visa restrictions, unrecognized qualifications or having young children. You may find yourself somewhat isolated, in the initial phase, while your partner’s days are full and busy with their new job.
You may be waiting for them to return home from work ready to hear all their news only to be met by an exhausted partner, whose day has been full of learning new systems, meeting new colleagues, navigating new roads or transport systems, and all in another language.
You, on the other hand, may not have spoken to another adult all day! It can put a strain on the relationship.
It’s important for both parties to see what challenges the other is facing. Good communication is key to understanding and acknowledging what the other is going through.
For it to be a success, both parties need to feel supported and listened to, while navigating their new life. It is not uncommon for a couple or family to return home because they were not prepared for the possible struggle of the early months.
It can be a painful learning curve to know that it needs to work for both, for it to work at all.
Australia is a popular choice of destination for many expatriate families and even though it has language, cultural and lifestyle similarities to many other countries, moving to Australia is not without its challenges.
Moving home anywhere is widely known to be one of the most stressful experiences in life and so it is particularly important when moving across international borders to get professional assistance from a specialist International Moving company and/or Relocation Service Provider. Australia is no exception.
Our E-Team member Nuss Relocations are experts in relocation services and has written a guide on helping you ensure your move is a successful one. This guide is a must read to help you alleviate the stress and complexity of your move.
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Relocating to a new city or destination is an exciting yet daunting time for the individual, couple or family.
The best piece of advice you’ll hear, is to plan for your move well in advance. It will help to reduce the stress which can be overwhelming at times, especially if its your first venture into Expatland.
Tips on What to Do Before You Move
Declutter. It’s not only cathartic to do a clear out before the move but also makes perfect sense. It’s much more difficult and stressful to try and declutter when the packers are there. The packers can’t make those decisions for you, “Should that stay or should it go”?
Organise rubbish collection, garage sales and donations to thrift / charity shops in plenty of time before packing day. You’ll feel better for it and you’re not paying for transporting ‘stuff’ that you may very well throw out when you move into your new home.
Accept help when it’s offered from friends and family. Put your super cape away! It’s o.k. They want to help! Whether for child-minding duties, replenishing the mugs of tea or coffee or cooked meals, it all helps in reducing the stress. Especially on packing day.
If moving with children, get some small packing boxes in advance from the moving company. Let them draw on them, colour them in, write their names on them. They can pack those precious soft toys in preparation for the move. Imagine their excited faces when they recognize their own boxes arriving safe and sound at your new home.
Decide in advance what you will need to:
a) Take on the flight. Those items you’ll need immediately on arrival.
b) What might need to be sent airfreight (that can be expensive) but you can get access to it earlier than if it’s shipped seafreight.
c) Then what needs to go into storage at your destination until you find your new home.
Most important of all, choose an experienced, industry approved relocation company.
When the Relocation consultant has expat experience themselves, they understand and appreciate the stress and pressure that comes with the move. Remember they are your first port of call on this amazing journey, so you want to feel confident and happy with the service they offer.
Get that right at the start and they will assist and support you, listen to your concerns and advise you, as you embark on this exciting journey.
Written by: Nuss Relocations